The renowned pedagogue Francesco Tonucci has identified five fundamental errors that adults often make in raising children. According to Tonucci, reclaiming streets and squares for children and including their real participation in public policies are essential steps for a more educational city.
The first identified error is the lack of prioritization of play. Tonucci argues that play is the most important life experience for learning and language development, as well as for social interaction. He laments that the modern city has eliminated this space, turning play into controlled activities rather than a free and creative experience.
Secondly, the pedagogue criticizes living under fear. He argues that excessive protection hinders children's growth and the development of autonomy. Tonucci points out that media outlets foster a dangerous view of cities, when the presence of children, although inconvenient, acts as an emotional regulator and compels adults to be better.
The third error is not truly listening to children. Tonucci distinguishes between children's real needs and requests influenced by the market and advertising. He recalls that the Convention on the Rights of the Child recognizes the right to be heard, and that cities like Fano, Pontevedra, Barcelona, or Granollers already incorporate child participation in decision-making.
Fourth, Tonucci criticizes adhering to the traditional school system. He believes that a one-size-fits-all educational program is incompatible with the goal of developing each child's personality and skills. School, along with family and the city, should focus on discovering individual vocations, rather than filling empty vessels with predetermined knowledge.
Finally, the fifth error is letting children grow up surrounded by screens. Tonucci warns of the danger technology poses to childhood, particularly due to the loss of direct dialogue and the difficulty in building a moral sense when exposed to the worst online content. He advocates for the need to reclaim the streets and free time for children.
“"If I were mayor or Minister of Education, I would do everything necessary for children to regain their free time, the streets, and play."
Francesco Tonucci, author of books such as "The City of Children," is an internationally recognized critical voice for the defense of childhood, with accolades including Commendatore della Republica Italiana and several honorary doctorates.
